Until they get LE’d. Refer to point 2 (misuse of the principles). He has one other slave that is a guy, and one other slave that is a girl, so of course that affects what things we do with them. Because even though you might all be awesome, some of you are less awesome (not usually technically by the way, you just didn’t kiss the right butt). Amazon is the big league of micromanagement. Anyone's welcome to host or participate in an AMA. Press J to jump to the feed. He's a very responsible master and I don't often have to hint to him. They are constantly behind the curve on scaling, their projects are always late, there is nothing documented, there is no architecture (or even respect for having an architecture or design). Yes, I find serving my master faithfully to be very fulfilling. Spanking is the only real physical punishment he gives me, and if I'm bad he might spank me a couple times or he might spank me until my bum is a little bruised, depending on how big of a punishment I deserve. Also of course the sex feels good. Answer: Amazon believes its own press, and they are too hypercritical and xenophobic to see when something isn’t working. The evening is usually much more varied, so it's hard to describe a typical evening. Do you ever get jealous that he has other slaves? Sorry if this is something else entirely. I even only wore the collar when I was with him. My master likes to keep his house very clean, so I usually spend a lot of time cleaning everything. Look at Amazon’s leadership principles. I'm 24 years old and live with my master/boyfriend, who is 30. I guess I'd consider the master/slave relationship to have started in earnest when he got me my first collar. And project management. Over time though I became more and more committed to him. Does he always initiate it or do you as well? My master always eats first, and after he's done he'll put my serving on my plate and I can never have seconds. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. What kind of things do you do for him sexually? Besides that aspect, there's a lot of things that I get from this relationship that people get from more traditional relationships. Be aggressive and ask for what you want. Just remember, they will be tattling on any misstep you make too; and right to your micromanaging boss! Well, I think I've always been a bit submissive. What do you get out of this relationship? But, most of them moved for Amazon, and now they are stuck. The majority of the time is really just both of us slaves pleasing him together, rather than much contact between us, but he has had his male slave have sex with me with him, and I might do oral while my master has sex with either of them. We slowly waded in from the shallow end so it's always felt comfortable. Do you or he have a favorite? do you enjoy this lifestyle? Yes, there is backstabbing, and if you are in the bottom 10% you will be termed “LE” and given a PIP which you aren’t meant to succeed at. Why? He got me a new collar and leash about 4 months ago and I absolutely love it. You like pain, I guess…. Your chances of being “the man” on that project are small. There hasn't been anything that I didn't want to do that he's commanded me to do, but of course there's things that I would prefer to do (or times when I just feel like doing something else) and he would insist otherwise. We didn't discuss it beforehand or anything, and when he gave it to me I was kind of surprised and shocked at myself like "Wow.. we're taking this pretty far." How often do you have to wear a gold bikini? Or they think they will make it. You are moving and multitasking all day. When confronted with life’s biggest opportunities, most of us shit the bed. Hah! I guess to start I pretty much always wear a collar, except when I'm visiting friends or family he allows me to take it off. No matter that you just moved from Pakistan or whatever.. Tough crap. Does your sex life involve any toys or kinky devices? Have a life? Ive always wondered how people go from normal relatively vanilla relationships to a slave/master relationship. Otherwise, you go to a group event or a random interview loop and end up in an org-wide hiring queue, where teams with "priority needs" are first in line for staffing. My social life with others probably isn't as active as a lot of other peoples, but I have friends and still see my parents, etc. And yes, each team needs to hit the bell curve. There is a strong bell curve in place for how you will be reviewed. Friends that do not visit every day may be able to make the relationship work better than those that are extremely close. Are you fine working hard and fast while being constantly berated and backstabbed in a horrible condescending culture? As I said, I'm rather ignorant on this subject. And I always know that my master will provide for me and take care of me and know what's best for me. On Reddit, a Disney fan pointed out a lesson in Cinderella that shouldn't be repeated.Cinderella lived in an abusive household where she was treated as a slave to her stepmother and stepsisters. It’s a horrible place that will ruin your health, your self esteem, your drive, and your relationships. Below are 10 of the most common strategies for reluctance I can think of. You need to do it the Amazon way. The sense of being loved and everything. “Racial justice,” in Critical Race Theory, means getting “justice” for the group , which it says is a social construction , not for the real person, who is just a member of that group. Fine. I'm not sure I really have any tips exactly, since I think every relationship is going to be different. But without going into detail, she turned out to be a bit crazy, and even though she ended up rejecting me before the relationship really … Long hours and intense days. Health problems galore. However, keep in mind that with about 1 year average tenure, you are not likely to get that money for long. Ops. I grew to love my current collar as much as the old one, and I have to admit it is a nicer collar. Although he's more in control of which/how many days I have off, so there's that. There's never been anything he's ordered me to do that I didn't end up doing. I had a part time job at a bookstore that I worked 24-32 hours a week at when I first started my relationship with my master (then just boyfriend), but eventually I just became a stay-at-home sub/slave and my master supports me and provides for me. They don’t care that you know how to do something better or faster for the customer. When he got me a new collar a few months ago I was kind of disappointed and really didn't want to give it up, but he ordered me to take it off and wear the new one. Please do not do it. None of this really ever felt awkward, since at no point did we really jump into the deep end. We've been together for 3 years, and 2 of those I've been his slave as well. Honestly that might be one of the reasons I'm so drawn to this type of relationship, because I can't really think of any way to be closer to someone than to be perfectly obedient to them and for them to be fully responsible to you (I really need to work to improve my obedience still). You thought they were on cutting edge stuff? 11 Reasons Working For Amazon Is the Worst Ever (From an Insider). In return I love to please him and show him I'm devoted to him. He can be strict, but he's never unfair and he only punishes me when and how I deserve. Do you have an active social life outside of this relationship? I don't mind at all. It's hard to describe a typical full day exactly, but there's some stuff that I generally do every day. He doesn't allow us to kiss each other at all. I haven't really worked since I graduated from University. Refer to point 5. We do involve toys and 'devices'. How did the switch happen from just dating to being his slave? Here is a top 11 list of what sucks the most about working at Amazon: Micromanagement. We also sometimes do 'mouth/throat fucking' which I guess some people might consider abusive, but I enjoy it. You thought this would be number 1? Not just sexually, in life in general. Other than the collar, we also have 3 butt plugs for me of different sizes/materials. We also two open-mouth gags. I love having him take responsibility for me and taking care of me. My master would only use humiliation as a punishment if I was really bad, such as forgetting or refusing to do a chore or something. Relationships take a lot of effort in any situation. Sometimes we have pretty rough sex, especially if I've been a bit naughty recently. Bell curving. I kind of get anxious when I'm not wearing it and tend to touch my neck a lot because it feels like something is missing. This question of why couples divorce after mere months of marriage was at the heart of an Ask Reddit discussion ... We were both young (23 at the time) and wanted to carry on our relationship for more than a few weeks at a time. Amazon pays a lot. I don't consider the sex very abusive, but I guess it depends on what you consider abusive. Because they like the cold or whatever?? I know my master will always keep his responsibilities he has towards me and I know I'm his biggest responsibility. Getting paged all night. Read it and weep. Although he's more in control of which/how many days I have off, so there's that. Was it hard to get use to? From there is really just slowly built up, with my master kind of introducing me to more and more. Who brought up the idea and was it at all awkward at first? Don’t say you didn’t. You will likely be spending your days keeping the lights on. My master has much more experience than me in this regard. That was the most disobedient I'd ever been without him punishing me for it. We really don't have these 'group sessions' very often, and it's actually really rare for me to do anything with the other girl at all. Negotiate a great comp deal. After working there for a period of years I am free, and want to prevent others from falling into this hell hole. We’ll start at the shallow end and work our way to the deep end. I was a little anxious and hesitant, but much more excited. If your manager doesn’t do it, he’s in trouble. 1. We usually don't have much time before he has to leave, so there's not much more I do then. When my master gets home he's usually ready and anxious for a bit of play time, and after that it's usually time to finish preparing dinner. The casual version of /r/IAmA. Why Do People Stop Talking to Their Parents? Topics may involve anything from ordinary to extraordinary subject matter. And I am talking about intense hardcore tell me everything you are doing, and 5 reasons why, while I yell at you micromanagement. Amazon’s got it! Well of course I enjoy being in this relationship, and I've always kind of been submissive. I will generally do what my master tells or indicates for me to do, but sometimes he'll relax and let me decide but not very often. I just started a sexual relationship with a girl who's into punishment and humiliation (directed at herself). Also the amount of time I spent as a slave rather than just a submissive girlfriend has increased over time as well, and might increase more as time goes by. And on and on. People drink a lot, and generally everyone is miserable. No! That’s what matters. In the bedroom there's not really anything we do I don't like, since even before I was his slave I've been really submissive. Because of that, switching to a slave wasn't terribly difficult, and it wasn't a sudden switch, it was more of a gradual thing. In reading the message boards and Reddit, I see the virus has created a lot of chaos for estranged adult children as many parents are using this as a reason to reach out. Ops. They look okay, right? Non-smoking friends are not willing to bring smoke into their home, and may not wish to be exposed in any situation. Attention anyone thinking about working for Amazon! But it’s the intensity most people don’t know about. 1. I wouldn't often voice my preference to something else, and when I do I usually get punished a bit. Well I think punishment and humiliation is a separate thing, but I'd imagine many master/slave relationships (including ours) incorporate it at least somewhat. Still not convinced? Amazon has grown way too fast, and everything is brittle and messed up. Not anymore. I actually prefer to wear it because it shows I'm his and really makes me feel most comfortable. Wrong. Look at the principles. Micromanaging is what “Dive Deep” is really about. You aren’t that dumb. I've never felt jealous of his other slaves. And you will owe part of that money back. Great pay is a mirage. Then you will be out. I'm perfectly happy to do this but I don't know much about it. Even with all the other companies you could go to that care about you, even a little? Sometimes we spend it with more play time, other times just relaxing or watching a movie, it really depends on my master's mood. Any tips or insight for a novice? If Amazon’s hiring practices were so good, why would they need to control people with nutty cult like principles? After he gave me the collar it pretty much immediately became my most prized possession. No respect for experience: At Amazon, it’s about Amazon. 15 minutes response time. Okay; so you are fine working hard and fast? Usually it has involved something with one of his other slaves, but not always. And deployment. Smoking can make them especially difficult to maintain. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Everyone knows you work long hours in most groups at Amazon. In the end, what got Cinderella out of her misery was a little bit of magic and marrying a wealthy man. There are many reasons why sex can disappear from a relationship, Heide says, and most of them don’t have anything to do with the other partner. I hope you don't mind. Today, Alabama Governor Kay Ivey is expected to sign a major contract with private prison company CoreCivic, kicking off a $3B plan to construct three new prisons in the state. I love talking about my relationship and my master is kind enough to let me do it pretty freely. I don't know how your relationship dynamic is, and if you can just have a frank conversation about what types of things she's looking for and what boundaries she has (you should really learn her boundaries since you definitely don't want to cross them). I definitely wouldn't have thought I'd be in this situation at all before I started my relationship with my master. What kinds of things have you done with his other slaves? I've only done anything with them while he was there, of course, and he very rarely only watches. When I first became his slave it definitely wasn't a full time thing, and I actually spent more time as typical girlfriend than a slave. Now I don't ever want to take the collar off, and could definitely see this being a 24/7 thing in the not-so-distant future. And, let’s say you get on a team that is doing something cool. If I've done something really bad he'll usually give me quite a spanking with a paddle. Seriously? For me, it would be a total mood killer if my master was asking if something was okay or not, but of course crossing a boundary would be just as much if not more of a mood killer. Our relationship isn't 24/7, as I usually have 1-2 days off in a week. Thanks! I saw /u/VeryIntelligent post about being a master, so I figured I'd make a post about being a slave. Our relationship isn't 24/7, as I usually have 1-2 days off in a week. being a bangmaid? I actually enjoy cleaning somewhat, depending on what chores I'm doing. I also still have a dildo from before I started my relationship, but I rarely use it anymore. This is why it is so common that progressive racial programs end up hurting the people they’re written to help most. Technical debt is huge, and the environment is too big to ever clean it up. Everyone does ops. Senior engineers working tickets all day. When I first met my master I was really attracted to how he always confidently took control of any situation, and pretty early after we started really dating I mentioned while we were talking that I really enjoyed that, and he'd said he had some experience in a dom/sub type of relationship and suggested trying it with me. Amazon is a dev ops culture from top to bottom. Has your master ever ordered you to do something that you were unwilling to do? We also have an assortment of ropes or straps to restrain me if I'm either being bad or just if my master wants to. But everyone does planning. There are chores I don't enjoy doing of course, but I get satisfaction from doing them by serving my master faithfully. Then double it. 10 Reasons People Divorce After Less Than A Year Of Marriage. Anytime feedback. Currently I have 1-2 days of time in a week where I'm not really his slave, but there are times I choose to stay his slave during that time anyway. This was my first experience with anything like this, and found I really loved it from the start. They need to search far and wide for people who don’t know or don’t care about what I am telling you. This is what leads to ops and not being able to work on anything cool (refer to points 5 and 6). If you don’t like being micromanaged, Amazon is not the right place for you. I can see how it would appear that way from the outside without knowing any details, but really I think that he provides for me and gives me much more than I give him, so I always feel like I need to do better and give back as much as I possibly can. Do any of your friends or family know that you are his slave? I think this is hot as hell, so I have a bunch of questions. Principles used as a weapon. Amazon doesn’t care about what is going on outside of Amazon, and they are so inwardly focused, they don’t even know that they are getting passed by open source technologies. When we wake up I usually bring my master coffee and breakfast before he goes to work. One is a plastic ring that goes just inside my mouth and the other has 4 hooks that keep my mouth open. And then we enact a number of strategies to avoid the pain and pressure inherent in reaching for our dreams. Can you describe an average day for you? There is no time for architecture, planning, or proper testing. On some days he'll give me permission to do other stuff, like meet friends for lunch or just go out and do something for myself (or post an AMA on reddit), especially if I've been very good recently. My master always decides when/if we have sex, but sometimes I hint to him that I need to be taken care of. I always ask for permission from him if I want to masturbate when he's not home, and on an occasion that he allows it I usually don't use any toy. If I've been bad, such as not cleaning well enough, instead of this free time he'll give me punishment time, where I either have to do specific chores or sometimes sexual tasks while he's gone. Thousands of high sev tickets in many teams. 5 Reasons People End Their Relationship With Their Parent. Because they have HUGE hiring and retention problems and people know it. Sometimes he involves me with his other slaves, but it's not as common. I prefer to let him make the decision and he always knows how to please both of us. Or the way your inexperienced manager says is the Amazon way, anyway. Everything is breaking in new and terrible ways all the time. There's been a few times where I tell him I don't want to (he knows me well enough to tell if it's really crossing a boundary or not), or try to convince him to let me do something else or something differently. He has 2 other slaves, one male and one female, who he meets generally once a week, maybe 2 tops. Sure, at first a lot of what they did was innovative, but not anymore. More Ops. The environment is relaxed, we just ask that you have fun! Most people use them to badmouth others and even better, and they use them incorrectly and qualitatively (which is totally hilarious at such a data driven company). No respect for planning. Want an app to anonymously tattle on your coworkers? Nah. You just sold your soul to the devil. I think its completely fair for him to punish me for doing so, as he knows what's best for me and sometimes I really just don't deserve to make the decision if I haven't been a good girl recently. I don't have any really close friends, but I never really did before even meeting my master, so I'm not sure if my relationship really had any effect on my social life. From Bezos (notorious micromanager) on down, managers are incented to micromanage. My friends and family don't really know the details at all, but they have mentioned that it seems to them that he's somewhat controlling and they think it's kind of a one sided relationship. While he's at work I have a lot of chores I have to do, like cleaning, shopping, getting ready to prepare dinner for him, and things like that. Speaking as a part-time player (switch), even if it is, there's loads of this kind of slave in the world! How did you end up in this relationship? You are tired when you leave. Many people at Amazon have health issues, are taking meds, get divorced, or have other family issues. Is the sex rough/abusive (I mean that in a good way)? Is there ever a time you don't enjoy it, or you don't want to do what he is requesting? I saw /u/VeryIntelligent post about being a master, so I figured I'd make a post about being a slave.. And, you will make those mistakes because you will be working hard and fast, while being tired, and getting constantly graded against the idiotic principles that don’t make sense for mature adults. Towards the end of chapter 6, as Lennie’s captors advance towards him, Steinbeck gives a brief description, using pathetic fallacy, of the landscape in which the story is unfolding; “Already the sun had left the valley to go climbing up the slopes of the Gablian Mountains, and the hill tops were rosy in the sun.” I never gave specific boundaries, and my master just took it slowly and based on my reaction was able to figure out where to take things and where not to. He's never come close to crossing a boundary with me, but different people will have different boundaries so you need to figure them out. 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